The IEP meeting is an annual occasion for most
parents of a child with a disability. "IEP"
is short for Individualized Education Program.
For
many parents, it is a dreaded event, which causes much tension, anger, anxiety
and disappointment, and can be a long, drawn out ordeal. We recently had our daughter's IEP and today,
because their birthdays are only two weeks apart, we had our son's. It marked our seventh IEP meeting in three
years. And for the seventh time in a
row, we had a very good, helpful and encouraging experience.
Autism is a disability. The IEP meeting is required by federal
mandate through the "Individuals with Disabilities Act,"
so it needs to happen, usually around the child's birthday. The IEP meeting is attended by the professionals who are working with the child through the
school district. In our case, it has
been their teacher or teachers (both special education and general), their
speech therapists, their occupational therapists, the school's assistant
principal and, in past meetings, their adaptive physical education
therapists. As a parent you are encouraged to take an active role in the process. With that in mind, and with
advance notice, you are entitled to invite other professionals and advocates to attend on your
child's behalf as well.
In
a very quick nutshell, the goal of the meeting is to determine for the upcoming
academic year the goals and objectives for each child and to produce a written
document that states those goals and objectives, and the services that will be administered to attain them. The past year is
reviewed, data and reports are presented and assessed, and goals and objectives
are discussed for the next year which usually allows for other issues to be
addressed. If all goes well, we, as
parents, and they, as educators and professionals, come to an agreement. Documents are then signed or given to the
parent to mull over for a few days and then sign, or if there are disagreements,
to meet again for further consideration, often with lawyers.
I
don't know if we've been lucky. I don't
know if our expectations are different than other parent's expectations. I don't know if we're just easy to
please. I don't know if our attitude
going into the meeting makes a difference.
I don't know if being educators ourselves makes a difference. I just know that we've always been given services
that have been obviously needed and put into very good programs with excellent
teachers and highly-qualified professionals who have nothing but the best
interests of our children in their minds and hearts.
If
we didn't see significant growth and positive improvements in every aspect of
their lives, we would have something to complain and haggle about. But we do.
We see the hard work of many dedicated people paying off in huge
ways. We can take a metaphorical step back and say, yes, from last year at this time to today, there's been tremendous growth, and more than we could have imagined. As I am wont to say, I don't believe in
miracles, but I do believe in miracle workers, and we've been blessed to have them working their magic on our behalf.
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